Wednesday, October 21, 2015

How to Foster True Friendships!

1 Samuel 18:1-3

We all long to be in genuine relationships. God created us with this need, as we were not meant to live in isolation. 

Our world is so drive by technology that many people today try to ease their loneliness through computer interactions. However, we cannot deny that if a friendship relies solely on social media, it doesn't compare to the human fellowship. But healthy friendships don't just happen. They require intentional effort. 

Last week, in looking to Jonathan and David for a biblical model of godly companions, we saw how mutual respect is vital in a healthy friendship. Now, let's look at two more aspects of their relationship. These men had an emotional love for one another; their hearts were knit together (1 Samuel 18:1). When one man experienced joy or sadness, the other man felt it too. 

They also had genuine devotion to each other, which is a type of commitment that involves giving: To show loyalty, Jonathan gave his friend material items--his robe and weapon. But both of these men selflessly offered more. Jonathan even risked his life and future kingship in order to save David from execution. Notice, too, that Jonathan was often the initiator and the one who gave more. He was a prince, whereas David was a lowly shepherd. Social status shouldn't interfere with cultivating a true friendship. 

We were designed for true companionship based on mutual respect, genuine love, and commitment. This requires time, selfless devotion, and transparency--which means being real, even about our faults. Taking such a risk requires trust, but genuine relationships are well worth the effort. 

- Devotional was found in the IN TOUCH MINISTRIES October daily devotional booklet.

1 comment:

  1. So true what you write here! Friendships require effort from both sides, and because of that I've lost many 'friends'. I will not blame them though, it's also my lack of effort. But right now I'm happy with just a few really good friends instead of trying to maintain many 'empty' friendships. :)

    Interesting to read your blog! I'm Christian as well and recognise a lot of things you write about :)


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